As a veteran, Memorial Day is a holiday that I take to heart. I sat out in my backyard today and just took a few minutes to reflect on all of my Army buddies, especially those who are no longer around to celebrate.

I bought RhondaHolland.com awhile back to make is easier for people to track me down. I am amazed at how many of my former unit members have actually found me via a Google search. And even happier that they took the time to do so. It is days like today that I miss them more than ever.

About an hour ago I got a telephone call from someone I served with in Japan back in the late 80’s - early 90’s, he was quick to wish me a happy Memorial Day and it brought a tear to my eye. He served in a special ops unit and has lost many friends who served in some of the most dangerous places on Earth for a soldier. I remember the nights when we sat around drinking beer asking all the questions service members ask themselves when they actually have time to reflect. I think in the end we still feel it was our duty to serve and we do not regret it.

Both he and I are disabled vets, though mine is a minor injury. I was extremely happy to hear that he is doing much better. I wish all my fellow vets were as lucky. Happy Memorial Day to all of them and to the families of all the veterans who gave their lives.

With that, here is today’s mini rant:

Support our troops. Instead of spending $5 on a magnet for your car, take the time to send a care package to someone in the war zone. You won’t believe how much it will mean to the service member who receives it.

If you do not have the money to send a care package, why not spend a few hours visiting with some of the wounded soldiers at the closest VA home or hospital? Donate some books or some cookies, just reach out and let the soldiers know you really care. Thank you!

All soldiers are well aware of the term "friendly fire." It is a sad fact but friendly fire happens in the heat of battle. However recent news stories add a new "friendly" form of death, that by execution.